Dear Anna,
My fiancée thinks the cake smash is a fun surprise, but I think it is definitely a no. What should I do?
– Frosting-Free Face in Ohio
Dear Frosting-Free,
A cake smash can be cute for a one-year-old birthday party, but cake on your dress, in your hair, and on your face could make your wedding day memorable for the wrong reasons. Be firm for the wedding day, but can you have a cake smash at home with a real cake for the two of you? For more shenanigans, add in an adult beverage and clean up with a bubble bath. Now that sounds like a sweet surprise!